01 / 03 / 2018
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DARE TO BE A LIBERTINE ! 

You've heard about it, you may know some people who have tried it, you're tempted by the experience, but you haven't made the jump yet. Here are a few tips on how to relax, shake off guilt and finally dare to be a libertine.

Taking care of your desires

Your body would like to eat a piece of this bread there, but the fantasy remains a Grail that you do not imagine unearthing. We know; the hypertrophied and guilt-provoking Superego puts you in front of a moralizing court, just thinking about it. And yet, Dr. Freud would advise you to free yourself and fulfill your desires without any complications. Daring is about breaking down the mental or social barriers that exist within you. It is fighting against preconceived ideas on the subject. Daring is also freedom.

Uninhibited

If there is indeed an environment where you can evolve in complete serenity, without fearing other people's gaze, it is as a libertine. Even if you're a virgin to some experience or another, you can try the adventure. You will not be subject to derogatory reflections, mocking glances and judgments from the initiated about your shyness. And above all, it's a good way to discover your body differently and evolve in a universe where all bodies have their place: big, small, skinny, tall, padded or muscular.

For pleasure

If you think about it, it tickles your senses a little bit. Tell yourself that the best reason to try being a libertine is to please yourself. Dare the pleasure of the senses, eroticism and sex. Anyway, get up on your feet, whatever you do.

Out of curiosity

If you're tempted, but afraid of taking action, don't hesitate to try, because libertinism doesn't force anyone to have sexual intercourse. You can observe, stay with your partner, caress yourself, etc. In short, the best way to know if you are ready to move from fantasy to reality is to satisfy your curiosity.

To enrich your vocabulary!

Because libertinism covers a range of forms of sexuality, you will discover many words that may not yet be part of your vocabulary. For example: mixing (sort of swingers, but without penetration), candaulism (a form of voyeurism, where one observes one's partner having fun with others besides oneself), side-by-side (two couples make love side-by-side); but also triolism, exhibitionism, etc. So many possibilities that allow you to find your happiness!

Feel like giving it a try? ;-)

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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