23 / 12 / 2019
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Why women join the sex industry ?

The question which is probably the most asked by clients to Escort girls ist he following :

„ Why are you doing this job?  You are so intelligent and beautiful, you could have a normal job. „

I do not know one single Escort who hasn’t been asked this question at least once since she has been an Escort.

In this article, I will try to give you Gentlemen, a few reasons why many woman become a sex worker and you will see, it is not always for the reasons you may think… For some women, it is a very lucrative business but for some others it is not really a choice and may have to work in this field due to circumstances.

Based on my experience and my knowledge of this industry, here are the main reasons why women join the sex trade.

 

Unemployment

Finding a job is becoming more and more difficult, whether you have a degree or not. Either you're too qualified or you're not qualified enough. Either you can't find a job with hours that fit the children's schedules (a bitter reality for single mothers) because there is of course no money to pay for childcare/ babysitting.

For single mothers who have to raise their children (70% of sex workers are mothers) and who can’t easily find a regular job which is paid enough, becoming a prostitute or an Escort might become their only option. Having to bring food on the table every day for their chldren is their fist priority.

 

Drugs

Women join this industry because they can earn fast money to pay for their drugs. For the drug addicts, it is almost impossible to find a regular job and keep it. They often get fired because of their addiction problem and prostitution is the only way they can get money to buy drugs which we all know, is very expensive. These women find themselves in a vicious circle, an infernal spiral where prostitution has only one purpose: to keep them addicted to their drugs, which become their daily life.

 

Extra money

Some women have a stable job but would like to have some extra money without having to ask anyone for it. Working as a sex worker can be done in a very discreet and flexible way, without any big commitment and is know to be „fast money earned“ (not easy though…).

Many students will choose to join prostitution to pay for their university/college tuition fees.

Some girls have a project such as starting a business, buying a house or paying their debts and will often leave the industry after they save a considerable amount of money.

Many women see prostitution as a way to pass through difficult financial times, like getting settled after a divorce.

Of course, the risk of getting used to this quickly „extra money“ earned and losing all motivation to do something else is high… Many women are very comfortable in this situation which provides them with fast money (often undeclared) and flexible working hours. They may be in this industry off and on their entire life…

 

Lack of education

Many, many girls leave school or college very early due to various reasons. Being not very educated leaves them with fewer career options. Prostitution is a profession where you don’t need much education or skill. You can work as a sex worker only if you have the looks and the body. If they don’t have the „brain“, these girls may never leverage and become Escorts but will rather remain prostitutes forever.

 

Child abuse

Those cases where girls join prostitution as a result of child abuse may not be new to you. Due to a difficult childhood, their mental orientation becomes abnormal and they join prostitution. Sometimes, their parents themselves influence them to join this trade…

 

Curiosity

Some women from very good families who do not need money would become Escorts because of sexual curiosity. They see it as a fantasy World where they can explore their sexuality. They find this World intriguing, glamorous and fascinating. They like dressing up and attracting men. These women choose to do this job and are not forced into it. They are  are often very happy to be an Escort.

 

Sex trafficking

Sex trafficking is a crime and many young girls (often under age) are becoming victims of it. They have to join prostitution against their will. This is one of the reasons why prostitution is illegal in most countries as it is considered as a form of women exploitation. In Switzweland, prostitution is legal and regulated.

 

Whatever the reason women turn into the sex industry, it is important to ensure good working conditions and safe environment for them.

As an Escorts' client, showing them respect and consideration is essential because before being a sexual object for a few hours, they are first and foremost human beings with a heart, a sensitivity, a history and they should never be judged for what they do. There is always a very deep reason why they landed in this industry and that reason, known or unknown by you, belongs to them only and deserves to be respected.

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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