Tell me what you offer, I’ll tell you who you are … by Janet
Yesterday, one of our Models received a very surprising gift from a customer (not a TVR member): an apple and a tea bag. She took a picture and sent it to me. Upon receiving her message, I couldn’t help but burst out laughing :
But after all, what kind of man can be so lacking in tact and class?
What is a gift?
Gifts are subconscious messages that we offer to others while waiting for a subtly (or not) response to the circumstance.
Giving is above all an onanist act. We offer for personal pleasure.
There is a little bit of self in the gift you give. Above all, the gift speaks for itself. We offer what we would have liked to receive, we offer what we did not receive in our childhood, we offer what we think the other will like, we offer what the other will like for that he/she loves us back. It also shows what we are ready to do for the other: “If you knew how much it cost me” And this single sentence has the power to spoil the pleasure by bringing in the notion of sacrifice and guilt.
What gift should I offer to an Escort?
The success of the gift lies in the emotion that is felt by the one who receives it.
The majority of Independent Escorts who manage their own website have a page on their site called a “Wishlist”. There you will find a list of gifts they would appreciate receiving.
At TVR, all our Models share gift ideas to better guide you in your choice if you want to offer them something.
If you are unsure, don’t take any risk and instead rely on the “Make her Smile” section of their profile. If you don’t know yet the Escort you’re going to meet, don’t buy something she might not like (of course, out of politeness, she won’t tell you), or something overpriced.
If this is one of your favorite Escorts you can be more generous because a “relationship” between you two has already been established. If you like to give her gifts, don’t always buy the same thing! For example, receiving flowers every now and then is a very pleasant feeling. Receiving it all the time, and above all, coming from the same person, can sometimes be confusing …
Vary the surprise so that it remains «tasty» and really pleasing.
Here is a list of little touches that always make a woman smile: a gift card from a perfume shop or her favorite store, a perfume, lingerie, a piece of jewelry.
Even if giving gifts is not your “thing”, I advise you not to arrive empty-handed when you go to see an Escort. From 1 hour of appointment, it is advisable to come with a gift. This gesture has a lot more impact than it looks.
It stands for consideration, respect and kindness. No girl can resist such a mark of tenderness and subconsciously, she is even more willing to make you spend a good time. You therefore multiply your chances by two, that everything goes very well.
My favorite gifts
My preference goes towards gifts that can be shared, those that create a moment of complicity, those that will be remembered, not because they sit on the fireplace, but because we have seen the pleasure and the joy in the gaze of the other. I like consumable gifts: Pastries, chocolates, a good bottle of wine, an invitation to a restaurant, a day in a Spa, an invitation to the theater… It’s a nice way to prove to the other that he/she is important for us, apart from all social conveniences.
Gift or no gift?
Gentlemen, if you do not have the means or the inclination to give an Escort a gift, do not do it and if you do, do it with your heart. It is better not to offer anything, than to offer something degrading or hurtful in the eyes of the receiver. If the Escort feels offended by your gift, it could influence (to your disadvantage) the quality of service she is ready to provide. Remember: For the experience to be enjoyable, you and the Escort must feel good and comfortable. Don’t be cheap, don’t make fool of yourself with a ridiculous gift or one that makes you look bad.
And if you really don’t know what to offer, leave her a tip. It is a great substitute for the gift. Whether it is 20, 40, 50 or 100 CHF, I can assure you that this will make her very happy!
Janet for TheVelvetRooms