Imagine a situation: you finally have such a rare day, an ideal time free from work, duties, routine, when you can do something pleasant, something to please yourself and relax. As the Danone ad says – “let the whole world wait.” One of the types of stress relief or leisure activities may be visiting a professional girlfriend. But once you finally make up your mind, everything happens exactly as in the advertising. Expectations don’t match reality.
You go to that Escort portal everybody knows in the German part of Switzerland (it may not be your favorite one, to me far from being the best, that’s for sure but it’s the biggest). You pick a girl. You contact her. Get ready to meet her. You put off all important and not important matters and make an appointment. With anticipation, dopamine level is off the charts. But when that girl opens the door, dopamine level and other vital signs plummet. You’ve met a completely different person. How do you feel? If the girl turns out to be better than the fake photos, you can consider yourself being lucky. And if not? Well, some people like the effect of surprise, while others can remain frustrated for a long time…
This is exactly what I wanted to share with you today, after Janet and I agreed that it is authenticity and transparency (as far as possible) that distinguishes our agency from others. This is not white coat syndrome. We do not want to expose others for their dishonesty. We are just offering an alternative…. And again … not for everyone, but for those few who care how and with whom such rare hours of leisure are spent, who care about the level of interaction and about what type of aftertaste (sweet or bitter) will be left behind…
I can put my shoes into the ones of a man who visits an escort not only because he has a need to satisfy primitive biological needs, but for whom it is a kind of leisure as well. It’s like going to a restaurant. And how unpleasant it must be when you are fooled by impersonating someone else?
I’ve met girls in this industry who had actually several different profiles on that popular website everybody knows. Different names, different phone numbers, different pictures which all convert to the same girl who has even gotten the label “verified” on her fake profiles…
But what drives women to create numerous fake profiles? Here are the six reasons which cross my mind:
* They want to attract more customers.
* They want to remain anonymous.
* They are not sure if they can attract customers with real photos.
* They don’t want to waste their time and resources on an authentic portfolio.
* They are not sure of the service they provide (or, on the contrary, don’t/can’t provide, because at any time they can change their number, change the stolen photos to others…).
* They feel more secure operating that way.
Talking to my colleagues who practice aggressive marketing such as creating numerous fake accounts, I realized that most of them hate what they do. And they do it just for the money. This is by and large just self-violence due to the impossibility of finding another way out of a difficult financial situation. Nobody forces them, they force themselves. And they hate themselves for it. As well as clients who become accomplices in this process without even knowing about it. All this initially incorrect and unconscious approach generate, instead of pleasant moments shared with someone, a cascade of negative emotions, prejudices and demonization of our industry.
And in order not to end on a negative note, I want to remind you that I am not perfect, but I am always me and I won’t trick you. My photos are real. As well as the photos of all my colleagues of TheVelvetRooms. Our portal is not perfect … but it is … uniquely authentic!
And I am glad that it gathers more and more people with similar views, respecting themselves and those around them, striving for a healthy level of interaction and pleasure, with the Models they choose to spend quality time with.
Dear skeptics, cynics and Pharisees, thank you for taking the trouble to read my article right up to here! I would be glad to hear your point of view on this matter if we get the chance to meet.
A last word to my dear regular customers: I’m glad that my work has provided me with the opportunity to meet such successful, interesting, positive, intelligent, intellectual, delightful and, no doubt, unique people! 🙂
Your Lydia
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