26 / 08 / 2021
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Tips for Ladies : How to screen red flags?

One of the biggest issues that Escort Girls face all the time is the time wasted due to suspicious clients who want to spend time with an Escort (talking, exchanging messages, photos ...) without spending any money.

Ladies, whether you are a beginner in this industry or an already established Escort, you may still be distracted by these attitudes which must be "Red Flags" for you. Those are signs that tell you that this man has no intention of paying for your services and therefore he is just a timewaster.

Here are my 7 "Red Flags" which will allow you to quickly identify and block Escort clients considered undesirable (of course they are many more but in this article, I will just focus on 7 of them).

Red Flag 1: "Send me a picture of you."

Some men ask for a photo of your face, your boobs and even of your pussy.

Why sending additional photos when there are enough of them on your profile? Why sending a photo of your face to a stranger while you have decided to blurre it for privacy reasons? Why sending photos of your genitals when you want the company of a man of a certain social and intellectual level (who will never make this kind of request)? And all this free of charge, to certainly masturbate looking at photographs received for free and on demand? No way.

Red Flag 2: Text messages or phone calls asking for a specific act in exchange of a specific price.

Can I get a blowjob for 50 CHF? Can I get anal sex for 100 CHF? Can I get sex without for 300 CHF?

I want to point that clients asking for intercourse without protection can have a poker face. They will visit you once or twice and behave properly and the third time they will suddendly show their real face. If he is asking for this, it means he got it elsewhere. He is actually a risky client with dangerous behaviours (dangerous for you, for his family and for himself).

As you are not a street prostitute but rather want to belong to the a High Class Escort category, never response to these kind of cheap resquests. These are not the clients you are looking for. No way.

Red Flag 3: Clients who want you to be available in the next 5 to 10mins or so ...

In order to become a good Independent Escort Girl in Switzerland and provide the best Escort Service possible, you need a proper amount of time to get ready for your client. Why should you compromise on this and let any client rush you (especially when it is someone you have never seen before) to be ready for him within 5min? No way.

Red Flag 4: Men using slang language while contacting you or writing never ending messages.

Those who write novels, ask 1000 questions without ever asking for a date are wasting your time. Conversing with you turns them on and that's enough for them. Don't let them take over your time for free and stop the exchange quickly.

If a client is not capable of expressing in a clear way what he wants or what he is looking for, why should you even spend your time answering him? No way.

Red Flag 5: Calls from hidded numbers or messages sent from Text-Apps.

I've written endlessly about this topic: do not answer unknown phone calls. He says he needs to protect his identity, well you also need to minimize the risks related to your job as you are about to have sex with someone you don't know. The minimum is to be able to retrace this person if anything goes wrong. Moreover, avoid answering phone calls having for area code a country you are not working in currently.

Text-Apps are associated with scammers. Do not reply to them. Should you make an exception especially if you had a bad day? No way.

Red Flag 6: The very last minute cancellations.

This client canceled his appointment at 3:55pm when he was supposed to be there at 4pm. Why should you believe in his bullshit story? No way.

Red Flag 7: Dick pics senders.

Guys, don't send a dick pic to an Escort. Just don't. If you do, here are the two reactions you can expect from that Escort Girl: either you will get no answer and she will block your number forever. Or she will answer in an aggressive way and block your number forever. In any case, you will never meet this girl if this was your intention.

As a general rule, don't send unsolicited pictures to any women. It will not take you anywhere else than in her bullshit category.

Last but not least...

Ladies, never let any client show disrespect towards the time and the efforts you dedicate in being a great Escort Girl. Remember that many of them do not see your job as a respectable job. They will often make you feel like their time is more valuable than yours. Don't give them the opportunity to confirm what they really think deep down.

Thanks for reading! :-)

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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