How to increase sex intimacy in the company of an escort?

Being a gentleman applies also in the bedroom… ;-). Because the quality of the experience you will have with an escort will also depend on your posture and behavior (before, during and after sex), these few tips will help increase the intimacy of this encounter so that it is as beautiful for you as for the escort. 

Take this article as a short guide to better understand what escorts expect from you in bed so you are avoiding any possible faux-pas. Whether or not this is your first time with an escort, you will certainly learn something from this blog article.


1. Playing too hard/long with her nipples  

Some guys will play too hard or too long on women’s nipples. What they do not know is that it is uncomfortable, sometimes painful and it does kill intimacy. Women nipples are very sensitive, with varying degrees of sensitivity throughout the month, so please gentlemen, play accordingly. Gentle licking and sucking can be really great, as long as it doesn’t feel like you’re trying to milk her. In any case, if an escort likes it harder, she will let you know.

2. Appropriating her orgasm 

Gentlemen, don’t ask a woman such a thing: „Come for me!“ ? It’s her orgasm, not yours. Please, respect that. Moreover, women's intimacy is not something standard. Meaning that not all women can orgasm through penetration alone, and your unit isn’t going to change her physiology.

3. No joke, please!

Some guys are trying to be funny during the intercourse and do not understand that it may be very clumsy… Not the time for jokes! Being funny can be a great way to build intimacy and foster a connection that will make sex better. But it does not always work… Some escorts will not like your jokes. Never tell a joke that will make her feel any less desirable or like you’re not taking seriously the sex she’s allowing you to have with her.

4. Refusing to use condoms 

Using a condom with an escort is more than obvious, but for some men, it's a fact that needs to be reminded of systematically. If an escort insists that you wear a condom, the rudest, most inconsiderate thing you can do is try and talk her out of it. It doesn’t matter if you “just got tested,” or if she’s on the pill. Women face way higher stakes in the bedroom. It is a medical fact that women are more physiologically susceptible to STDs than men, not to mention the risk of pregnancy. Sure, intimacy and sex feel better without a condom, but life feels better without diseases…

5. Claiming you are „The King of Sex“

Whether it concerns intimacy, sexual acts, or foreplay, too many men think that they are super good in bed. They talk a lot before sleeping with a woman... and then, they do not deliver. Guys: the worst thing you can do is over-promise and underdeliver. ;-) Empty promises are an alarming trend in human male behavior. Women have adapted to this evolution by lowering their expectations. No girl is expecting the best sex of her life the first time she sleeps with you, and even less so the escorts. In fact, staying humble makes any sexual missteps you commit in the act far more forgivable. Girls know you will lie to her about something far more important somewhere down the road, so no need to start with how good you are in bed.

6. Don’t go too deep!

Why do men think that escorts like it deep? Most of them dislike it when guys go too deep. It doesn’t feel good, it kills intimacy, and it even hurts sometimes! Please gentlemen, stop punching in her vagina. It’s not impressive, and for some, it’s actually painful. Just how deep is a personal preference. Give her all of you but ease up if you get the feeling that it’s too much for her. Not sure? Just ask her.

7. Don’t skip the foreplay 

She is not asking for an hour-long, candles and hot oil massage. It takes more for women to get aroused than just wanting you, regardless of their age. Men, remember this: foreplay increases intimacy, makes sex much easier and simply skipping it’s likely to make a woman feel more objectified than wanted. Note that escort aren’t usually into quickies and when they offer it, it’s mainly because there is a demand for it. Upscale independent escorts who are into intimacy and long bookings will always appreciate the company of a man for whom foreplay isn’t optional.

8. Stop seeking validation 

„Do you like my big cock? „ Why do you keep asking this questions guys during intimacy? Don’t be delusional about your size. The honest truth is that most of the time, bigger isn’t always better, but a big ego is the worst! When you ask this question to an escort, it makes you look like a very insecure man.

9. Conducting an interrogation while having sex

„What about this position?“ Is that OK like that?“ For great sex, communication is absolutely a must, that’s true but rather before starting, not while being in action. And if you really have to ask, then make sure any questions are purposed and specific. “Are you OK with Anal Sex?” is definitely a question worth asking. However, checking in with her every time you change position is just tiresome. Constantly asking her for validation is so unattractive and under-confident and does not help to foster intimacy…

10. Don’t treat her like your maid 

Guys, don’t throw her a towel, so that she can wipe YOUR sperm off her back! If a woman lets you finish anywhere else than in a condom, show some gratitude and at least wet the towel a little with some warm water before politely handing it to her. Or go a step further and give her a hand, especially if it’s in a spot she may have trouble reaching. Gentlemen, a bit of chivalry ! :-)

I hope I haven't been too prescriptive in giving this advice. Intimacy isn't always something that comes naturally, especially with a woman you don't know. So, gentlemen don't take these few tips lightly, because it will undoubtedly help you have a wonderful time with the independent escort of your choice!

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

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