Escort Girls: Here is why you should always have high heels on.

More and more gentlemen are telling me about being very disappointed when they meet an Independent Escort who has no high heels on. The beautiful photos that highlight them and thanks to which these men eventually make that call to spend time with an escort, are often for sex workers, only a way to attract potential clients.

Once he has passed the door, the client realizes that her physical appearance does not necessarily match those of the photos and even when the pictures are accurate, no effort has been put into to host him as it should be.

I am thinking in particular of wearing high heels. Based on my experience of the industry, half of Escorts do not wear them. In my opinion, this is a choice that lacks of professionalism and I will tell you why in this article.

A standard rule at many establishments

As you probably already know, independent escorts are not dominating the sex industry. Indeed, in Switzerland, most women choose to work in Sex Clubs and erotic studios, especially because they offer flexible working hours and require no investment (in rent, advertising, supplies) to get started without any pressure or stress.  

And clients of escorts tend to like them too as the number of them visiting brothels has not fallen over the years. One of the things they surely appreciate at many of those the most popular of those places is the standards they put in place to maintain a certain image and a certain level. In many of these locations, Escorts cannot look or be dressed anyhow and high heels are often mandatory and no one discusses this because it is a standard rule. Honestly, I think that’s the way it should be.
 

„I’m an Independent Escort, I can do whatever I want to !“

If you only knew how many times I've heard that sentence! It is very popular among these girls who have absolutely no idea what it is like to be a REAL Independent Escort and that is why the vast majority of them are unable to promote themselves alone, have few regular clients and are sorely lacking of self-discipline. And yet these qualities are essential to maintaining a customer base, stable revenues and a solid reputation.

In the conventional life, giving up a full time employed job to launch a business and become an independent worker is extremely challenging (longer and unpaid working hours, few or no vacation at all, little sleep...) ! That is why only very few people choose this path, which guarantees more insecurity than prosperity.

In the world of prostitution, the rules are the same. When you choose to be an independent escort in Switzerland, you also accept to have to work harder and better in order to build a loyal clientele and to be able to bear the costs related to this status (advertising, renting an apartment, photo shooting, supplies...), costs that girls working at an erotic studio do not generally have (these costs are largely covered by the establishment).

Being an independent escort is not only about what you expect from your clients but it is also about what you are giving to them. It has to be a win-to-win situation.


High heels: Every respectable escort should wear them

Most men recognize and assume their attraction for women wearing high heels which represents the woman in all her sensuality. Men love to see a woman in high heels because it slims their figure, make their legs look longer and slimmer legs and round their bottom.

For men, high heels represent the exacerbated sensuality and sexy femininity of a woman. Some of them even admit to worshipping the high heels even if no one wears the shoes: we are referring here to a fetishistic fantasy.

But generally speaking, for men, high heels represent the woman and everything related to her. These are the Gentlemen who caress our legs, kiss our feet, pamper our shoes and massage our toes...!

Ladies, how can you ask 300 CHF an hour and not wear high heels for your clients? Unless they've explicitly asked you to do so, do not greet them barefoot or in flat shoes or sneakers but with high heels - they'll expect no less from you…

Why do men love women in high heels?

High heels change a woman's posture by arching the back, lifting the hips, and elongating the legs, which creates a more pronounced silhouette, as I mentioned earlier in this article. And this is precisely this symmetrical and arched body posture you get while wearing high heels, which men often find attractive because it enhances certain physical cues associated with femininity and attractiveness.

Whether we like it or not, a woman wearing high heels is culturally associated with femininity and elegance, partly because they have been worn historically in contexts that emphasize fashion and beauty. The act of wearing high heels as an escort usually gives an impression of sophistication, style, and self-assuredness, qualities that many escorts’clients and men in general, find appealing.

Men often find confidence attractive in a woman, and high heels can be a sign of a woman’s willingness to put effort into her appearance, projecting an aura of self-assurance and poise.

Finally, because high heels subtly change the way a woman walks (often leading to a shorter stride and slightly exaggerated sway in the hips), it increases your sex appeal with men, who, let's not forget, are much more sensitive to and attracted by visuals than most women.

No high heels on: Why it isn’t a good idea? 

Ladies, too many of you have high expectations about clients but can’t handle/understand the first impression! You expect the client to be polite, to smell good, to be on time, to be generous…But what’s the first impression you leave on him?

The first impression is a mental image, an initial evaluation that one makes about a person one sees for the first time. What kind of image do you think that a Gentleman has from a woman (who he is about to pay for her time) welcoming him without a pair of high heels on? Does she care about my time and money? Does she remember the conversation we had about my fetish for high heels? Is she aware that high heels turn me on and that seeing a woman in this context without high heels puts me off at the highest level? Does she really love her job as an escort?

Yes Ladies, so many questions can come into a Gentleman’s mind without you even noticing it and more often than not, he will not tell you face-to-face what he’s really thinking about…

You are not comfortable in high heels? Then, don’t get them too high, but pick a pair which you feel good in and put it on to welcome your client, even if it is only for the first 15 Minutes of the encounter but please, wear your high heels.  If you are going to an Outcall and the client prefers you coming with flat shoes, make sure to have a pair of high heels in your bag to put it on once in the room, if he changes his mind. Remember: The first impression never lies! By wearing high heels as an escort, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. 

In other words, when you choose to be an independent escort, you have to be more demanding with yourself and, with the standard of service you provide otherwise, customers won’t be coming back. For many of them it is all fine because there are hundreds of escorts like you around… Indeed, you are not the only one dear and if you can’t understand this, you will not last long in this industry...


Clients of escorts: Be demanding !

A respectable Escort Girl should wear high heels. It's part of the basics of the business. It's part of the package, part of the overall experience you're paying for. For those who consider this a very important detail, make sure you communicate clearly to the escort in question (on the phone, by WhatsApp...) that you expect her to wear high heels when you visit her.

She's not wearing high heels when you meet her, even though you told her it was something very important to you? Keep your money and leave. And don't have a guilty conscience. Remember: first impressions never lie. And that goes both ways...

Janet – The Velvet Rooms 

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