Married men : Should you remove your ring before seeing an Escort?

Did you know that about 50% of escorts' clients are married men who wear a marriage ring? If you are one of them, don’t worry: Nothing to be ashamed of.

I am not here to judge you Gentleman, quite the contrary, if seeing an Escort can directly or indirectly save your marriage, why not?

I am sure you may have asked yourself this question a couple of times: “Should I remove my wedding ring before dating with that Swiss Escort?” You are hesitating, you do not know what would be the best to do… to keep it or not to keep it ...?

Here are pieces of advice, and my humble opinion about the topic.

If you always wear your ring and never remove it, then I think it is better to keep it on. Why? Because the risk of losing it or not being able to put it back (because of a swollen finger for example) remains and it will look suspicious once back home. A woman usually knows her husband very well even if she pretends to ignore him ... do not be fooled by appearances.

If you wear your ring from time to time only, then it would certainly be better to remove it before meeting with an Escort.

Why? Essentially to protect your privacy. A ring is a clear sign that you are not single. Does she really need to know that? Why would you share information with an unknown person who does not need to know this detail of your life to make you feel great? As much as escorts feel uncomfortable answering intrusive questions from clients, it's only fair that clients should feel the same way when an escort gets too inquisitive. As a married man (and / or father), if you make the choice to spoil yourself from time to time with an independent escort, try to keep this part of your privacy as unobtrusive as possible.

You can share a lot of things with an Escort who might become a confidante, a friend and sometimes even a lover. As long as this relationship between your regular Escort and you has not solidified (sometimes it may take years), I do not advise you to share too much about your privacy.

In case you hardly know this woman, keep it strictly business. If she is a good Escort, she will respect that, will not ask personal questions and will know how to make you feel comfortable during these moments with her without the need to know more about who you are. Because that's the goal of seeing an Escort, right? Offering yourself a selfish moment, just before going back to the daily routine ...

And what if you removed your wedding ring but the Escort you chose to see today asked you if you were married after having noticed a mark on your ring finger?  Well, tell her politely that you don’t want to talk about that. She will understand immediately and will not insist.

But remember, an Escort Girl of a certain caliber will never ask you personal questions unless she has been allowed to do so...

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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