The proper etiquette for cancelling your appointment with an escort girl

It is a common occurrence; a lovely escort girl prepares herself and her room to receive a gentleman for an intimate encounter filled with carnal pleasures. The phone rings, a text message or email comes in…it’s a no-go. The client cannot make it. The escort girl has mixed feelings of understanding, disappointment and anger.

Life throws random stuff at us and sometimes things just won’t go as planned, but if you wish to truly be regarded as a gentleman, you must keep your word and respect your engagements towards an escort girl.

Let her know as soon as possible

If you absolutely must cancel, please be as diligent as possible and inform the escort girl as soon as your impediment arises. Time is money for every professional; an escort girl is a professional and should be treated as such. You wouldn’t stand-up a 300 CHF/hour lawyer (who you stood up the previous time) and expect him to help you when your next legal impasse arises, would you?

Think carefully about how to cancel

Be mindful of the medium used for your appointment cancellation with an escort girl. A true heartfelt phone call is best; do not hide behind a text message, an email, a WhatsApp message; it might look like you do not have the fortitude to face the fire; lying and disrespecting people comes a lot easier through a digital screen than it does on a phone call where people can gauge every intonation of your voice with as much interest as the words you use.

Apologize and make it up

A gentleman or an honest party to a contract would also find a way to compensate or offer a conciliatory gesture towards the neglected party. Be a little more generous upon your next visit; take the lovely escort girl to dinner, bring a bottle of her favorite Champagne, a daily pass to a spa; use your imagination. Whatever you do, DO NOT forget to apologize when you cancel AND when you see each other again. Classy escort girls, understand situations such as a last-minute family imperative or a longer-than-expected business meeting..., but “the dog ate my homework” excuse will not stand with them; insulting their intelligence only adds insult to injury.

Avoid landing in her blacklist  

DO NOT, compound your error by acting like a timewaster and cancelling again, the very next time you are supposed to see each other. Gentlemen, be advised that serial cancellations will get you blacklisted with that escort girl, their agency and/or their associates. The word gets around fast, especially with high-end ladies who often demand references from other courtesans before meeting a new client.

Simply respect her time

Finally, an escort girl is not second-class citizen and should not be treated as such. For her, a lost hour is not easily rebooked on short notice; it might involve extending her working day, adding an extra day to her schedule or just having to go without the donation altogether. High-end restaurants often demand a reservation even though walk-in business can fill an empty table. An escort girl that respect themselves do not have walk-in business, remember that. The nature of the business is such that all these uncertainties can throw even the most professional escort girl off her game. If you like your women to be “in the moment “, with no distractions; don’t provide them with any; and please do not ruin the experience for the next gentleman that did show up on time…

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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