17 / 09 / 2018
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10 things you do in bed that women hate

Surprise, surprise, surprise : men are not always "Aces" in bed (well, OK, neither are women, but that's another story... today, I'm talking about men!).

I do not claim that there is a universal guide to sex because like everything else in life, women and men can love things that are very different from each other. On the other hand, I think there are some big NO-GOs that all men should know about because most women don't always enjoy what you enjoy...

To help you satisfy your partner in bed, here are 10 things you should never do during sex!

1- Hit her / pull her hair / bite her very hard

Why we hate it: Slapping us on the butt without warning? Biting our nipples to death? No, thank you. Unless she is officially a very submissive woman in bed, she will appreciate being warned beforehand. It's like Brussels sprouts, some people like it and others hate it. It's always better if you ask your partner what she wants on her plate instead of sticking it down her throat... You know what I mean?

2- Have a hickey (in a visible place)

Why we hate it: No woman really wants to talk about her sex life to everyone who goes to see her neck because of the total absence of a turtleneck in my wardrobe...

3- Try anal sex without warning and without lubricant

Why we hate it: These things require a prior discussion with your partner because it's not really something that all women like/want...

4- Remove underwear with your teeth

Why we hate it: First of all, it's not very elegant of you and then, it can damage the beautiful underwear that she paid a lot of money for...

5- Don’t ask her this question: "Did you come?"

Why we hate it: If you ask this question, it is almost 98% certain that the answer will be "no" or she may said "yes" to you and therefore lie precisely so as not to have to hear this question again. Also keep in mind that the clear majority of women do not need to reach orgasm to have fun in bed....

6- Coming in her face/hair without asking first

Why we hate it: No, but really... seriously... do you think women like that?

7- Not knowing what to do with your fingers and just going too hard "down there"

Why we hate it: It's not something you can do violently. To make us like it, you have to be delicate, very gentle... that's all!

8- Do something seen in a porn movie/read in 50 Shades of Grey

 Why we hate it: Just because a woman has found the book/movie enjoyable to read/watch doesn't mean she wants to replay a scene in real life...

9- Do not reciprocate oral sex

Why we hate it: Don't you think that a woman can love receiving oral sex as much as you love receiving blowjobs? Why not share that pleasure?

10- Get to the act right away and ignore the foreplay

Why we hate it: In case you didn’t know, women really like foreplay... For many of them, it is a “MUST” for a great sexual relationship! ;-)

 

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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