15 / 10 / 2024
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Anal plug: Why is it so popular!?

 

Recently, the popularity of the anal plug has grown rapidly. In this article, we dig into the topic and explore the several reasons, both physical and psychological for the anal plug and why it piques the curiosity of so many men and women.

 

What is the purpose of an anal plug?

For many, an anal plug offers a way to explore additional erogenous zones, particularly the nerve endings around the anus, which can provide intense stimulation. This is especially the case for a lot of men who are sensitive to the direct stimulation of their prostate, leading to intense pleasure. The anal plug is used by them as a way to enhance that experience and can even lead to stronger, longer-lasting orgasms.

 

A perfect preparation for penetration

Those who are curious about anal play but aren’t ready yet (or not interested in) for anal sex, should know that an anal plug is often used as a preparation tool to relax and get ready for more intimate activities such as larger anal plays or penetration. The anal plug helps relax the muscles and create a more comfortable experience for those who are new to anal stimulation or those who prefer to take it slow before engaging in full anal sex.

 

Anal plug extends stimulation

Another reason why anal plug has become a favored item for many people is that it prolongs stimulation. Indeed, some people wear an anal plug during foreplay or even throughout daily activities! This provides continuous stimulation, which can build arousal over time, heightening pleasure during sexual encounters.

 

Kink and power dynamics

The anal plug can be considered as a kinky thing and is no stranger to the BDSM community due to its association with submission and control. It is often used as part of dominance and submission dynamics, where one partner may direct when and how the anal plug is used. This adds an element of psychological thrill and emotional intensity to sexual play. If you are into this kind of role play and want to incorporate the anal plug into your sexual experiences to add variety and novelty to your sexual fantasies but you can’t possibly have this conversation with your wife/girlfriend, consider hiring an escort. Many are very open-minded when it comes to anal play…

 

Anal plug: less intimidating than it may look

Due to the availability of anal plugs in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and materials it has slowly changed their image and made them accessible to both beginners and experienced users. So, if you want to explore anal foreplay, it’s definitely the way to go because you can really choose which anal plug suits and fits you best. Many designs cater to comfort and aesthetic appeal, making them less intimidating for first-time users and offering novelty for those seeking variety.

When a person starts to feel comfortable with that erogenous zone of their body, they can move on to another anal plug model and gradually upgrade the size and shape until they feel ready to take it to the next level (using an anal dildo for example, then, later, having anal sex).

If giving your partner an anal plug has ever crossed your mind, then start with a small model and don't neglect its aesthetics. The more the object resembles a fine piece of jewelry, the greater the chances that the person receiving the gift (and who is open to the practice) will want to try it out. 

 

The differences between an anal plug and an anal dildo

Because there's often a lot of confusion surrounding these two terms, here's a little clarification to stop confusing the anal plug and the anal dildo. Actually, the main differences between an anal plug and an anal dildo relate to their design, purpose, and how they are typically used.

 

The anal plug:

An anal plug is usually designed with a tapered tip for easy insertion, followed by a wider body and a narrow neck, ending in a flared based the base secures the anal plug for it to stay in place safely and can be removed easily. The shape is meant to stay securely inside the body once put in. The main purpose of the anal plug is to stay in place for prolonged periods (long-term use), providing a feeling of fullness and pressure. It can be used during foreplay, intercourse, or even worn discreetly in some cases for added stimulation throughout the day. An anal plug is not typically used for thrusting.

 

The anal dildo:

An anal dildo tends to have a more uniform or realistic phallic shape and is usually straight or slightly curved. It can vary in length and girth and is designed for thrusting, penetration or movement (mimicking the sensation of intercourse) during use. Like the anal plug, an anal dildo has a flared based for safety. It can be moved in and out and often offer a more dynamic form of stimulation (can be used to stimulate the prostate or rectal walls more actively). An anal dildo is more commonly used for short-term sexual play and is typically inserted and removed repeatedly for stimulation.

Both the anal plug and the anal dildo are used for pleasure but their intended sensations and uses differ: Now, you won’t get mixed up anymore! ;-)

 

Anal play and anal sex: no to be confused

Be aware that some people (men or women) may be very comfortable with the idea of wearing an anal plug, but much less so with the idea of anal sex. In fact, anal plugs fall into the category of anal play, which is radically different from anal sex.  Let me get more explicit here.

Anal play is more exploratory and can be part of foreplay or sexual activities. It includes any form of stimulation involving the anus (internal or external) including light touching, internal penetration with fingers, toys (such as an anal plug or an anal dildo) or the use of other types of gentle touch (like rimming for instance) or vibration. Anal sex on the contrary, refers specifically to intercourse through the anus. Anal sex involves deeper penetration compared to anal play and is usually more intense.  

Either way, one of the best ways to enjoy sex is when there's consent. So, whether you fancy anal sex or just want to explore anal plug, remember to always communicate clearly (talk about it) with the person you want to experience it with, and it'll be all the better for it!

 

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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