04 / 07 / 2024
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Erotic massage: 6 questions, 6 answers

 

In recent years, erotic massage has become increasingly popular in Switzerland. In some cities, it is even more in demand than the GFE (Girlfriend Experience) service, and escort girls who do not know how to massage, often find themselves losing out on earnings because they are unable to offer a quality erotic massage that clearly distinguishes itself from prostitution.  In this article, I will answer six main questions you may have about erotic massage in Switzerland and give you a few tips on how to choose your erotic masseuse/masseur.

 

What is an erotic massage?

An erotic massage is a type of massage that combines sensual and sexual elements with the aim of providing pleasure and eventually leading the recipient to sexual arousal and release (i.e. orgasm). Unlike traditional massages, which focus essentially on well-being, or therapeutic massages, which aim to relieve muscular tension and promote relaxation and physical well-being, erotic massage emphasizes intimate touch and stimulation of the erogenous zones.

 

What are the particularities of the erotic massage?

During an erotic massage, the focus is on sensuality, with slow, deliberate movements designed to heighten the client's sense of touch and sensual pleasure.

Stimulation of the erogenous zones is an integral part of erotic massage. Particular attention is paid to those parts of the body that are especially sensitive (buttocks and breasts, inner thighs, genitals...) and likely to provoke sexual arousal.

When a masseuse performs an erotic massage, the use of oils and lotions is essential to reduce friction and enhance the sensory experience.

A great deal of attention is also paid to the atmosphere where the erotic massage takes place, which is above all intended to be very intimate. The setting is generally designed to be relaxing. Subdued lighting and soft music reinforce the comfortable, private setting of the experience. Most erotic massages take place on a massage table, but more and more masseuses are also offering the experience on the comfort of a bed.

During an erotic massage, the professional masseuse/masseur will use a variety of techniques including gentle caresses, kneading and sometimes the use of the masseuse's whole body to create a more intimate experience.

 

Why is erotic massage becoming increasingly popular in Switzerland?

Erotic massage is indeed becoming very popular in Switzerland. Firstly, for escort girls and/or masseuses (professional, semi-professional or beginners), it is a service that allows them to indulge themselves in the adult industry, earn more money than by offering classic (non-erotic) massages, while offering erotic services without having to put their genitals to work, without having to have a sexual relationship with a stranger. As a result, there are more women interested in erotic massage, rather than working as an escort. Moreover, since there is no diploma or license in Switzerland to call oneself a "masseuse", many women are getting into the business, which can be very lucrative.

From the customer's point of view, erotic massage is a great alternative for those who:

 

* Have a guilty conscience about cheating on their wife/girlfriend/partner by having sex with another woman. An erotic massage therefore seems a more "acceptable" and a less "reprehensible" option.

 

* They simply want a carnal massage and find it very pleasurable. These men are not looking for sexuality, but rather sensuality. They are looking for an erotic massage and the energy it gives them. They come for the erotic experience and are not motivated/disturbed/excited by anything else such as sexual thoughts. 

 

* They need a change and alternate between visiting an escort girl (where they get sexual services such as fellatio, kissing the girl and having intercourse) and a masseuse, to whom they go when they only want an erotic massage and nothing else.

 

What contributes to the popularity of erotic massage in Switzerland is its price. It is usually between 150 CHF and 200 CHF for an hour. Some girls even offer half-hour sessions for 100 CHF. So, it is a very affordable service for customers who are on budget but who still want to indulge themselves on a regular basis, feel the hands and touch of a woman on their body and enjoy (almost every time!), a unique orgasmic experience, in a restful and relaxing setting.  More often than not, clients will book an erotic massage lasting around an hour.

 

Where can I get an erotic massage?

You can get an erotic massage either from girls who offer massages and make it clear that they also offer erotic massages, or from escort girls who have experience in professional massages and know how to provide an erotic massage (not all of them can do it). More and more escort girls are also professional masseuses, and even have a masseuse diploma. This is an important detail you need to consider when looking for an erotic massage. An escort girl will certainly be able to give you a pleasant massage, but if massaging isn't really her thing, you will quickly notice it. Why so? Because being an escort girl and being a masseuse are two different professions. Girls capable of providing you with both services at a very high level are rare commodities. However, there are a few around... take the necessary time to do your own research. In case you are having trouble making up your mind, always choose the girl who has gathered experience in erotic massage, who is able to talk to you about it, who has reviews that have already been published about her erotic massage services and, ideally, a girl who is a professional with a masseuse diploma. Also pay attention to the location where she proposes to meet you. If the address is not discreet, or if she invites you to meet in an inappropriate place, this should be a red flag for you...

The mistake you should never make is to ask a therapeutic masseuse if she would be willing to offer you an erotic massage. Therapeutic masseurs in Switzerland have studied for three years to obtain their federal diploma, which entitles them to use the title "therapeutic masseur/masseuse". The massages they offer are essentially aimed at well-being, medication, treatment and therapy. They do not offer massages for sensual or sexual purposes, so avoid these specialists.

Instead, turn to independent escorts who are also professional masseuses (so they have a diploma and lots of experience in erotic massage). As mentioned, contacting a masseuse who specializes in erotic massage is also an excellent option. Finally, TCM (Traditional Chinese Massage) places will always offer you a Thai massage, which very often (at least in Switzerland) takes the form of an erotic massage...

 

What are the different types of erotic massage?

There is no such thing as a universal form of erotic massage. This massage is unique because, depending on various parameters (your desire, your tastes, your expectations, the masseuse's experience, her specialty in terms of massage, the duration of the session, the environment in which the massage takes place, whether it's on a bed or a massage table, the chemistry that's created between you and the masseuse/masseur, your mood, desire and your energy on that day...), it will always be a little different. In addition to that, this erotic experience may or may not incorporate different other types of erotic massages, such as prostate massage, lingam massage, nuru massage or tantric massage. What makes erotic massage so unique is that it can be customized and personalized. Unless you are going to meet the same masseuse who consistently provides the exact same service, few erotic masseuses/masseurs will offer you an identical erotic massage.

 

Erotic massage: not a "serious" massage?

In Switzerland, you will often hear the term "serious massage". This term has always made me smile. It is used by people who believe that there are serious massages (therapeutic massages) and non-serious massages (erotic massages). A strange term, because it would mean that anything not exclusively for health purposes would be considered non-serious. And if something is not serious, then it is thoughtless, superficial, casual. Therefore, following the logic of these people, an erotic massage would not be something good. Of course, this makes no sense at all!

According to the Cambridge dictionary, a serious thing is an action that is done carefully, thoroughly, diligently, precisely, rigorously and neatly. Not only is erotic massage a serious massage (as it requires technical skill to be performed correctly) in the same way as therapeutic massage (they just have different purposes), but it is also a massage that provides undeniable benefits to the body and mind by reinforcing the couple's intimacy: "There is no doubt about the sensuousness of touch and physical contact. Too many couples dive straight into penetrative sex, bypassing a truly erogenous experience that would have served to augment and heighten the climax of the couple's passion" (Black, 2006, p.117).

In Switzerland, unlike in many other countries, erotic massage is not a controversial or illegal practice - quite the contrary. Although erotic massage is often offered in contexts more geared towards adult entertainment than health and well-being, it is nonetheless a serious massage, requiring real skills to be performed properly.

Gentlemen, choose your erotic masseuse/masseur wisely, because it is in her hands that the magic of this sensory experience lies!

 

Janet - The Velvet Rooms    

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