Escorts: Do not ignore these wake-up calls!

One of the biggest issues that sex workers face all the time is the time wasted due to suspicious clients who want to spend time with an Escort (talking, exchanging messages, photos ...) without spending any money. But so many girls do not see those wake-up calls…

Ladies, whether you are a beginner in this industry or an already established Escort, you may still be distracted by these attitudes which must be understood as "Wake-Up calls". Those are signs that tell you that this man has no intention to paying for your services and therefore he is just a timewaster.

Here are my 7 "Wake-Up calls" which (I hope) will help you to quickly identify, and block Escort clients considered undesirable. Of course, there are many such signals, but in this article, I'll limit myself to a few tips.

Wake-Up Call 1: "Send me a picture of you."

Some men ask for a photo of your face, your boobs and even of your pussy.

Why sending additional photos when there are enough of them in your profile? Why sending a photo of your face to a stranger while you have decided to blurry it for privacy reasons? Why sending photos of your genitals when you want the company of a man of a certain social and intellectual level (who will never make this kind of request)? And all this free of charge, to certainly masturbate looking at photographs received for free and on demand? No way.

Wake-Up Call 2: Text messages or phone calls asking for a specific act in exchange of a specific price.

Can I get a blowjob for 50 CHF? Can I get anal sex for 100 CHF? Can I get sex without for 300 CHF?

I want to point that clients asking for intercourse without protection can have a poker face. They will visit you once or twice and behave properly and the third time they will suddenly show their real face. If he is asking for this, it means he got it elsewhere already. He is actually a risky client with dangerous behaviors (dangerous for you, for his family and for himself).

As you are not a street prostitute but rather want to belong to the High-Class Escort category, never response to these kinds of cheap requests. These are not the clients you are looking for. No way.

Wake-Up Call 3: Clients who want you to be available in the next 5 to 10mins or so ...

In order to become a respectable Independent Escort Girl in Switzerland and provide the best Escort Service possible, you need a proper amount of time to get ready for your client. Why should you compromise on this and let any client rush and stress you (especially when it is someone you have never seen before) to be ready for him within 5min? No way.

Wake-Up Call 4: Men using slang language while contacting you or writing never ending messages.

Those who write novels, ask 1000 questions without ever asking for a date are wasting your time. Conversing with you turns them on and that's enough for them. Don't let them take over your time for free and stop as soon as possible these exchanges of messages.

If a client is not capable of expressing in a clear way what he wants or what he is looking for, why should you even spend your time answering him? No way.

Wake-Up Call 5: Calls from hidden numbers or messages sent from Text-Apps.

I've written endlessly about this topic: stay away from unknown phone calls. He says he needs to protect his identity; well you also need to minimize the risks related to your job as you are about to have sex with someone you don't know. The minimum is to be able to retrace this person if anything goes wrong. Moreover, avoid answering phone calls having for area code a country you are not working in currently.

Remember that text-Apps are associated with scammers. Do not reply to them. Should you make an exception especially if it wasn't a good day financially? No way.

Wake-Up Call 6: The very last-minute cancellations.

This client canceled his appointment at 3:55pm when he was supposed to be there at 4pm. Why should you believe in his bullshit story? No way. A cancellation of such should be made way in advance. 

Wake-Up Call 7: Dick pics senders.

Guys, don't send a picture of your dick to an Escort. Just don't. If you do, here are the two reactions you can expect from that Escort Girl: either you will get no answer, and she will block your number forever. Or she will answer in an aggressive way and block your number forever. In any case, you will never meet this girl if this was your intention.

As a general rule, don't send unsolicited pictures to any women. It will not take you anywhere else than in her bullshit category.

Last but not least...

Ladies, never let any client show disrespect towards the time and the efforts you dedicate in being a great Escort Girl. Remember that paradoxically, many of them do not see your activity as a respectable job. They will often make you feel like their time is more valuable than yours. Don't give them the opportunity to confirm what they really think deep down…


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