Escorts: What type of body clients are looking for?

As an escort, your appearance and how you present yourself (the first impression) are crucial aspects of your work. While how you choose to present yourself is entirely within your control, our physical appearance is a reality that is partly beyond our control. But what really matters to clients? What body types attract the male gaze?

Men love feminine bodies

After repeating this hundreds of times to hundreds of escorts, they still find it hard to believe me when I explain that most men are far more tolerant of a woman's "flaws" than she is of them. Generally speaking, men greatly appreciate bodies with feminine curves; that is, slightly rounded, curvy, and diametrically opposed to the male body.

Too many sex workers still believe that men who visit escorts are looking for a supermodel, when most are quite happy to share a little intimacy with a naturally attractive woman who doesn't intimidate them. Does this mean that women who are prettier than average are less successful as escorts? Not exactly, but we're not far from the truth…

Why does the girl next door look remain the favorite for most clients?

A man is often subconsciously (or consciously) ranking himself on a "market value" scale. If the girl is significantly more attractive than him, he worries he cannot compete with other men ("alpha" rivals coveted by many women, but which Western society is gradually making disappear) who will also pursue her. He feels he has to "over-perform" in other areas (money, status, charisma) just to keep her interest, which is exhausting and anxiety-inducing. Indeed, a highly beautiful woman has options. For a man with insecurities, this is terrifying and triggers a primal anxiety of being cuckolded or abandoned, leading him to view her beauty as a liability rather than an asset. For many men, this is partly the reason why they "settle" for average-looking women, and many will tend to go after the same type of look while searching for an escort.

With a very beautiful escort, the client might feel like the "less attractive" one, which bruises his ego. With an average-looking escort, he can position himself as the "catch". This allows him to feel powerful and in control. He doesn't have to "perform" to keep her interested. And when the experience with that girl-next-door escort turns to be a great one, it is usually not because of her face but mainly because of her service and her character.

Men prefer women in shape!

You might think (like many sex workers) that you're not thin enough… But did you know that the client who meets you is primarily looking for a normal, well-proportioned, and healthy body? Men love the curves of a body that's regularly trained (fitness, sports, etc.). Thinness is less attractive to many men than it seems, and although BBWs can build a good clientele, they constitute a niche category. Instead of obsessing over thinness, invest your time seriously in regular physical activity.

Finally, I'll conclude this article by emphasizing that, for independent escorts, natural breasts are much more appreciated by clients than artificial ones. A natural face is also much more attractive and seductive than that of a girl caked in makeup or a girl who has undeniably had cosmetic surgery (and unfortunately, it shows just by looking at her…). And don't neglect your hair (its natural look and style are always a sign of elegance), nor your nails (which should look clean and natural).

In short, regardless your age, adopting an authentic and distinguished look while ensuring you maintain your physical fitness is the winning formula that will surely appeal to your clients!

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

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