Communication with an escort: How to share your sexual fantasies?

Everyone fantasizes, or almost. And there is no shame in that. But where do sexual fantasies come from? Should we sometimes worry about it or, on the contrary, should we do everything possible to achieve it? If your partner doesn't seem interested, how can you express your fantasies with an Escort?

What is a fantasy?

What is a fantasy? A sexual fantasy is a conscious dream, a kind of little film produced by the brain, which has the power to trigger a strong erotic excitement. Rare people do not have sexual fantasies, either because reality offers them a sufficient source of excitement - and that's good - or because they repressed themselves, frightened by their content.

We sometimes realize that the scene chosen is linked to a childhood memory that had caused us intense emotion.

For example, dreaming to be in the arms of another has nothing to do with infidelity!
But you can keep your secret garden, without feeling guilty about it. The imagination allows you to “live” new sexual fantasies without endangering your relationship. A couple who does not explore their sexual fantasies will be much more tempted towards extramarital affairs.

Sexual fantasies: should it come true?

The peculiarity of the fantasy is that there is (usually) no acting out. Besides, when you eventually experience it, one may be disappointed.

By wanting to make your sexual fantasies come true, you run the risk of removing all their attractiveness afterwards and therefore depriving yourself of any pleasure! Without counting all those for whom it is not even possible, because we know that, in reality, we would not stand these practices or because they involve other people. Even if there are no perverse thoughts, certain fetishes remain difficult to share with someone else. But what if these sexual fantasies could still be experienced with a sexually liberated partner or with an Escort for instance?

How to communicate your sexual fantasies with an Escort?

Sharing our fantasies is often a taboo subject. Most couples do not confide their sexual fantasies for fear of judgment, rejection, shame. Some people will never reveal their fantasies and fetishes to anyone. But did you know that you can make your sexual fantasies come true by living them with someone who will never judge you? Why not contacting an Escort girl? A neutral person who, in exchange for a donation, will help you satisfy your deepest desires.

Escort girls are there to keep you company and to satisfy you sexually. They will help you relax, relieve yourself, balance your life by reducing your stress linked to a lack of regularity in your sexual relations.
These “girls of joy” can also go very far in the realization of your sexual fantasies but according to your way of expressing yourself, of behaving, the answer may be a positive or a negative one. It is all about how you approach them.

Below, 3 tips to how to talk about your sexual fantasies to an Escort and maximize the chances that she accepts to help you embracing your kink:

* Make sure you've met her at least 2 or 3 times before sharing your sexual fantasies with her. Despite appearances, an Escort is not ready to do everything for money. If she doesn't know you at all and your fantasy seems bizarre to her, you will receive a negative answer or even no answer at all. And you need to know if you actually feel comfortable with her, if there is a kind of chemistry between you too. Therefore, go slowly and meet her at least 3 times before talking to her about it. The more confidence she will have in you, the easier it will be to approach her on subjects that are a little delicate (even taboo) without being embarrassed or uncomfortable.

* Let her know of your sexual fantasies in writing (Email, Text message, WhatsApp), specifying that it is only a fantasy and that whatever her decision, you will accept it, without being disappointed. Do it in advance, before booking/confirming any appointment with her. Introduce yourself first, then get into the description of your fantasy using proper words and nice vocabulary (avoid vulgarity). The advantage of the text is that she has time to read it, reread it, to imagine being part of it. This time of reflection which is being given to her will play in your favor and will influence her final response to transform it into a "Yes" if her first reaction would have been a negative one. But of course, you should also be prepared for a “No” from her, but at least it will be a well-thought-out answer.

* Unless your fantasy takes place under the table of a restaurant, in your car or outdoor, choose to experience it at her Incall place rather than during an Outcall. Meaning in the Escort's apartment/hotel, where she receives you. Why? Because she is in her comfort zone, in a place she knows, in which she feels reassured and safe. It will therefore be easier for her to accept to please you and realize your sexual fantasies (which may not be hers) with a lot of commitment and interest. If she is an escort, you know well or have seen on several occasions, and you both have a great chemistry, then she will be pleased and comfortable meeting you for an Outcall/Escort Service, if that is your preference.

* If the escort has agreed to live out your sexual fantasies with you and made you happy do not forget to thank her. A text message, a call or a positive comment on her profile will go straight to her heart! Showing gratitude will also encourage her to perform in the same way (if not better) when you come back to see her.
 

Conclusion...

Having to go to a client she has never seen in order to fulfill sexual fantasies of which she knows nothing about, at an unknown place are elements that will work against you. Sex workers work a lot following their "feeling/instinct". The more comfortable they feel in your company, the more they will be willing to do to satisfy you.

Sexual fantasies are almost as important as the sexual act itself: they arouse excitement (lubrication) and desire, prepare for action and allow stimulation, both imaginary and physical. They also make it easier and faster to reach orgasm in many cases. They are so connected to the body that some people reach orgasm just by fantasizing! Don't be ashamed of your sexual fantasies!

Janet - The Velvet Rooms 

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