03 / 02 / 2018
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A small penis? Why it isn't a big deal !

As an established independent Escort, I have had the opportunity to spend wonderful moments with true gentlemen!

But something often surprised me: no matter the social class those men were from or the professional status they had reached over the years, their confidence completely dropped down, rightly or wrongly, when their penis size wasn't for them, big enough.

A few of my clients with a so-called small penis would confess to me not being able to have sex properly, or pleasing neither themselves or the women they were with.

To all these men who think that penis size is the ultimate proof of masculinity, I want to say: Stop! You are wrong guys. We ladies, think differently. Penis size is a part of a whole package.

Indeed, sex isn't only about penetration: fingering, oral sex, mutual masturbation and toy use are many ways to have fun without the act of sex. Moreover, most women need and like clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.

Don't listen to those claiming that all women love big cocks! A penis that is too big can actually hurt. At least, small and average size penises are not going to make us feel like we are being stabbed from the inside out... :-( .

Yes men, bigger doesn't mean better! It is more about technique. For men who have a penis smaller than average and who still think that performence is everything, I would say that the best positions to please your partner and make penetration deeper would certainly be: Doggy Style, Pile Driver, Side Cowgirl or Supergirl.

But gentlemen, please, bare in mind that the penis doesn't make the man! A small penis is not a dealbreaker at all, such as bicep size, leg size, hand size, nose size, shoe size... What really matters is your self-assurance. Being comfortable in your own skin with the ability to simply be yourself.

A confident man is quite genuine and can impress any women in minutes! His sense of smartness, intelligence and his gentlemenly behavior will make any lady melt, regardless of his penis size...

Don't you remember how many women you have met with average or ugly looking men?

Life is a confidence game : play the right cards! ;-)

 

Helena for TheVelvetRooms

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