26 / 11 / 2024
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Soft domination versus hard domination: What’s the difference?

 

Domination is one of the services escorts are regularly asked for by customers. Some want soft domination; others dream of hard domination. Of course, not all escorts offer domination services. When this service is available, it's mostly soft domination that's offered and less hard domination, often reserved for escorts qualified as dominatrix.

But what's the difference between soft domination and hard domination? How can you tell them apart? Whether you're a customer who wants to know more about this topic, or an escort who's still not sure where to draw the line between soft and hard domination, here's an article that I hope, will help you to see things a little more clearly.

 

What is Soft Domination ?

The tone and style of soft domination is gentle, sensual, and often playful. It focuses on a more teasing, psychological, and subtle assertion of power rather than outright force or physical intensity.

The type of activities happening during a soft domination session may include light bondage (e.g., silk scarves, handcuffs), verbal commands, teasing, roleplay, and mild forms of discipline like spanking (with minimal pain).

Soft domination does appeal to individuals who enjoy power dynamics of submission without extreme intensity or physical discomfort.

This type of domination is frequently a romanticized portrayals of BDSM, where boundaries and comfort levels are kept relatively mild.

 

What is hard Domination?

Here the ton and style are intense, forceful, and more extreme. It can involve a higher level of psychological control and physical power.

Activities of hard domination include more advanced techniques such as whipping, flogging, caning, advanced bondage (e.g., rope suspension), humiliation, and other edge-play scenarios (activities that push personal boundaries).

Hard domination put a greater focus on physical pain, psychological endurance, and exploring limits, often requiring established trust and experience.

Indeed, because hard domination often involves a higher degree of risk, making communication, consent, and aftercare essential, it is important that safe words and protocols are strictly followed.

Hard domination appeals to those men and women seeking more extreme or fetish-driven adult content and often overlaps with niche BDSM or kink communities.

 

Soft domination versus hard domination: 2 different Scenarios

Are you wondering what a soft domination scenario would look like? Here are two examples which should help you feel the big gap between those two domination services.

A client enjoying a submissive escort and doing some soft Domination on her would gently ties her wrists with silk while whispering commands like “Stay still” or “Don’t move until I say so.” He lightly teases their body with feathers and give playful spanks.

An escort performs hard Domination on her client by using ropes to tie him in a hog-tie position, spanks him with a paddle until she leaves marks, and commands him to call her “Mistress.” She incorporates degradation by making him crawl across the floor or hold uncomfortable positions as punishment.

Do you know better perceive the difference between soft domination and hard domination?

 

Soft domination versus hard domination: What should be remembered?

To sum up, remember that soft domination is about mild power exchange, while hard domination ventures into extreme or intense territory.

Soft domination is often less physically demanding (for both partners), focusing more on teasing and sensuality, whereas hard domination may incorporate pain, humiliation, or elaborate restraint techniques (therefore, make sure the person who dominates has a lot of experience in what they are doing to avoid any risks attached to this practice).

Soft domination is typically more beginner-friendly and mainstream, while hard domination often requires greater skill, trust, and familiarity with BDSM practices.

Ladies and Gentlemen, if you do fantasize about domination, get very familiar and comfortable with soft domination first, before moving to anything tougher...

 

Janet - The Velvet Rooms

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