24 / 06 / 2018
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Text/WhatsApp messages Escorts don't like to receive

This is nothing new: we all know that Escort-girls of a certain level like to have guests of the same caliber to spend great time with.

Those clients who are usually Gentlemen would first get in touch with their favorite companion via a phone call or a well written email.

In North America, for example, upscale companions will likely be first contacted by email (if she is using one) but in Europe, a phone call will be preferred.

Although we love texting our friends and relatives and receiving WhatsApp messages from the ones we care about, most of independent Escorts do not like receiving text/Whatsapp messages from clients or potential clients, especially when those messages are unwelcome, rude or clumsy...

If you are shy, if you have never used the services of a Swiss Escort before or if for some reasons, calling is really impossible for you, then make sure not to have your phone number blacklisted because of an inappropriate text message... Learn about the eight text messages you should not send to an Escort:

Texts at improper times

Inappropriate hours to text an Escort are before 8am and after 10pm. Texts outside those suitable hours are a turn off and will be received as creepy, disrespectful or desperate, except if the call-girl explicitly mentions in her ad being also available during the night.

A text to the wrong Escort

Please, make sure to remember her name before texting her. If her name is Carla, don't call her Claudia. It is a lack of tact. This has happened to many Escorts I personally know and from the moment they read such messages, they are quite refractory in the idea of answering ...

A text asking for pictures or nude selfies

It may be fun and exciting for you but for an escort who has her own website or spent hours writing a beautiful profile and adding several pictures to it, it is completely disrespectful. You can really turn her off to you just by asking. Why should she send these kind of pictures free of charge to a stranger who may not even book her afterwards? If she plays along, it shows her lack of healthy boundaries and the low-level escort she is. Show her you have healthy boundaries by not asking her to send them.

Texts which do not even say "hello"

Honestly, would you answer a message to someone who does not even greet you? If you go to the bank, to the grocery or to the postoffice and the person at the counter doesn't look at you or ignore you although you are standing in front of her, how would you feel?

Well, the same applies when you contact an Escort : start your message by being polite and saying "Hello", "How are you?"... Those kind of nice and friendly words we all like to hear/read when we first interact with somebody. If you can't be polite at first, don't expect an answer to your message.

Text that just says "Hey" or "Hi"

To all men out there: initiate a full thought! Texting her just "hey" or "hi" makes the escort having to interpret what you mean and most of them will not even bother trying!

Text messages with pictures of your dick

Nasty text messages showing your dick getting hard? Let me tell you the true: No woman like that (except if this dick is her boyfriend/husband's).  It is GROSS and STUPID. And it doesn't matter if she is an Escort or not. We don't care about the dick of an unknown man.

Some men send pictures of their penis without asking, without any explanation context. Typically, sending such a picture is one of the first communications the Escort will receive from these men and of course, they will go straight into their blacklist !

It is most likely that this behavior represents an aspect of men's misperception of female sexual interest. Men love the idea of receiving such pictures from strangers and they assume women do too. They assume wrong, obviously...

Text that are making her waist time

Remember: an Escort's time is as precious as yours. She is getting paid for her presence and her company and has no time to entertain you for free via text messages. Which means that, messages such as " What are you wearing right now?" or "Can we do a video call?" are an absolute NO-GO. It sounds juvenile and perverse. Call on a Phone-Sex operator if you are horny and need to relief yourself before being able to sleep or between two business conferences but please, leave this Escort alone. She has no time for such silly games.

Text that require a long response

Take notes please: any information that will require more than one or at the most, two, text fields to convey belongs in an email or in an actual phone conversation. Texts are meant to express short ideas. If your text spills over into several texts, it is annoying to scroll back to start reading and it is rather impersonal.

Why don't you just give her a call?

 

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

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