The 5 most popular beliefs about the call girl profession

You think you know the call girl business? Many of you wrongly think that it is an easy job, where money is earned quickly, effortlessly and that all women who use their body to sell their time choose this path because they have no other alternatives.

Well, let me tell you, this vision is not entirely true... but much more nuanced than it seems.

Over the years and thanks to a lot of experience, a call girl has learned how to deal with sexuality, psychology and social relationships. Her work is a mix of customer service and fantasies. A large majority do it by choice and love their job and some even publicly assuming their profession. Being a call girl also provides them with a stable financial situation and contributes to the financing of projects (or lifestyles) that were not feasible until then.

To better inform the public about sex work, here are the 5 biggest preconceived ideas which surround the profession of call girl:

1- Sex work is easy! Sex workers are lazy... 

For many reasons I can say that this is not an easy job and can even become costly. A call girl make herself available between 12 and 14 hours a day (sometimes even longer). She often spends an enormous amount of time finding a decent and appropriate place to receive her clients in privacy.  Some are very active on social media and manage several accounts, answer their emails and text messages, publish and manage their advertising on different specialized sites, plan and prepare appointments with their customers, when they have their own website, some even write blog articles...

When an appointment is confirmed, they need on average between 30 minutes and 1 hour to get ready before their client arrives. Many of them spend a lot of time and money maintaining their bodies shape. In her daily work, the call girl does both physical and emotional work. She knows how to listen to her clients' confessions and make sure to please them so they eventually will turn into regular clients.

2- A call girl spreads diseases and infections

It is precisely because her body is her working tool that she cannot afford to put it in danger. The average call girl pays twice as much attention to her health compared to the average woman. A decent call girl only offers safe intercourse. She also visits the gynecologist 2 to 4 times a year and regularly carries out health screening tests (on the TVR website, many Models have provided a recent health test which has been approved on their profile). Her health is of paramount importance: if she is not in good shape, she cannot pay the bills and provide for herself and her family. Furthermore, neglecting her health would put her clients and reputation at risk. It would cost her job.

3- Only weird people, losers and desperate men will see a call girl

You would be surprised by the diversity of people who see Escorts. Middle-aged couples who want to stimulate their love and sex lives, young soldiers who like to relax in good company during their service, lawyers, doctors, men with a disability who want some intimacy with someone... The work of a call girl sometimes has a more therapeutic component than a sexual dimension, but everything is always done with respect for the other. Escorts' customers treat them with respect. The ladies are gentle with these gentlemen, just as much as the guests are with them.

4- A call girl hates her job

At The Velvet Rooms, women have chosen to do this job because they want to be financially independent. Their work is very personal and intimate, and they are very much involved in what they do. They meet vulnerable (physically, mentally or emotionally) people who express their deepest desires to them. The relationships they have with their clients are sincere and they are happy when they can relax in their company, are relieved and come out of the rendezvous radiant and smiling !

5- A call girl is a broken person

We often read that prostitutes have maintained electrical relations with their fathers, that their parents should not be proud of them, that they have not been to school... Certainly, there are women with little education, alcoholics and drug addicts who prostitute themselves. But by saying that, we are dehumanizing the profession of call girl, while reinforcing the stigma around it.

On the other hand, what the media do not want to talk about is that more and more Escort Girls are psychologically very stable, have done long studies and speak several languages. Some are still students; others work in managing positions, other are using their escort work to leverage their life. Many escorts are truly intelligent and brilliant. They willingly choose to become a call girl in order to improve their financial situation and/or simply, for the pleasure of pleasing.

Please, try not to judge a book by its cover. You may be taken by surprise by the incredible story that book has to tell…

Janet - The Velvet Rooms 

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