07 / 02 / 2018
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Your Wife/Girlfriend stopped giving you blowjobs?

You’ve been together with your girlfriend/wife for a while now and you are missing the good old days… Those days when both of you were crazy in love and giving each other oral sex spontaneously, without even thinking… You now have the feeling that your partner has changed and you’re wondering why she does not give you blowjobs anymore…?

Well, here are a few reasons that might help you answer this tricky question.

 

SHE NEVER LIKED IT

For those who are not completely aware, a lot of women don’t like giving blowjobs at all. Because they might have been afraid of losing you at the early stage of your relationship, they might have done anything to keep you happy in bed but they never truly enjoyed it and just couldn’t tell you, of course!

 

YOU’VE STOPPED GOING DOWN ON HER

When was the last time you gave her proper cunnilingus? Why would she accept a one-way deal then ? As much as you love being sucked, most women like oral sex being performed on them too. So, if you are remarkable at oral sex, show her!

 

SHE HAS RESSENTMENT TOWARDS YOU

She works full time, gets home before you, takes care of the kids, prepares the meals and cleans ?  Relieve some of that daily stress by pulling your weight in the family: she will feel like she’s getting a break and will slowly ask for some more intimacy between you too.

 

SHE IS NOT IN LOVE ANYMORE

An Escort can get very intimate with you without having feelings for you. She is a professional and that is part of her job. However, in a relationship, things are often the other way around; usually, the more intimate you get with your partner, the deeper and stronger the love. Are you still having occasional sex with her but it is kind of impersonal (no kissing for example) and she does not ask for more? Well, if it is the case, she certainly won’t be able to offer up oral sex… She probably still loves you, but she is definitely not in love anymore, which, for us women, are two very different things.

 

IT IS TAKING YOU TOO LONG TO EJACULATE

As much as you can love blowjobs, keep in mind that your partner will often do it mainly for your sole pleasure, because it turns you on. Think about her, the amount of work, the focus (her jaw !!!) that she has to put into it in order to perform a great blowjob. If it takes you forever to cum, she will get sick of it. If you could figure out a way to cum in less than 10 minutes, your partner will surely give you more blowjobs than you think…

 

MAKE HER FEEL SEXY!

When was the last time you told her she looks nice and sexy? When was your last romantic dinner together? Where are those days you used to court her, compliment her and make her feel desirable? Now you just expect things and do not even say “thank you”. Sorry guys but, no wife/girlfriend would muster up the energy to give you a blowjob if you can’t make her feel special and appreciated.

 

SHOW HER THAT YOU LOVE IT

When she eventually gets to the point of giving you this long awaited blowjob, don’t lay there as if in a coma, not making a sound. How can she get the motivation to keep going ? Be there, responsive, make some eye contact, tell her sweet words.

Show her you are loving it… the same way you would do with your favorite escort! ;-)

 

Having sex and having oral sex are a bit different. Oral sex is much more personal. I, Janet, particularly love giving oral sex when it’s great with a partner, it’s a staple! I love the reaction I get, and I love the power and gratification that comes from giving someone else pleasure!

 

Janet for TheVelvetRooms

 

 

 

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