Loverboys: poisoned love.

I’ve always wondered why this hypocritical world tries to eradicate the oldest profession in the world rather than realize that such a mission is lost in advance and that we should rather focus on putting in place tools and means to control, regulate and protect women who freely choose to go this way and prohibit / stop those who are forced into this industry, very often, because of Loverboys.

And it is precisely there where things get complicated because when a girl is in love with the one who uses her as a "money machine" by physically and mentally oppressing her, it becomes very difficult to get hold of these unscrupulous men, called Loverboys. Loverboys strangely dominate the industry and do not seem to be worried by the authorities / laws put in place and which are supposed to condemn their acts.

What made me want to talk about the subject is an anecdote that happened to me once. A woman in her forties contacted. German, blonde, experienced, very friendly on the phone. I accepted to let her one of my apartments. I therefore sent her the information I needed to prepare for her visit. She sent me all the information back in less than 2 hours, via email (including very personal information). I replied 4 hours later and found that she blocked me on WhatsApp. So, I tried to contact her via my second number (via which she had originally called me) and asked her if everything was OK and immediately, she also blocked me on that phone. Absolutely incomprehensible attitude. I was speechless ... But when I come to think of it, I don't think it was her who blocked me...

I have long wanted to write about the phenomenon of Loverboys without ever finding the right words to talk about this delicate topic. Here is what I can say about it today:

Loverboys have an ambiguous relationship with their "victims", whom they call their Girlfriend. Often threatening and violent, they know how to show a charming image of themselves and quickly have a hold on these women who over time end up becoming emotionally attached to them.

Indeed, Loverboys proceeds slowly. It’s a whole process that starts with attachment. They do everything to make their victim emotionally, financially and physically (many of these girls become addicted to alcohol or drugs because of these guys) dependent on them. Loverboys exploits their victim because their push them into prostitution without them at first, that they are being manipulated and taking advantage of. They push these girls (often very young and sometimes still minor) to have paid sex with clients whom Loverboys can introduce as their friends.

This is how forced prostitution begins. They put financial pressure on their victims by making them believe that they have debts to repay. Loverboys also use emotional blackmail (if you don't do that, I'll leave you “). They can also use threats on reputation (If you don't do what I tell you, I publish these videos of you on the internet… “).

All young girls can fall into this trap, regardless of their social class. However, the younger and poorer the victim is, (who is emotionally unstable and inexperienced in love matters), the more vulnerable she is and the more likely she is to fall into the arms of a Loverboy. Many of these young girls are physiologically vulnerable and have experienced sexual trauma during their childhood.

Loverboys often find their victims on social media but sometimes they have known them for a very long time, so it is even easier for them to rapidly built the sense of thrust they need from them to then have complete control over them... Their goal: to make money quickly. More often than not, the vast majority of the money earned by the girl goes entirely to the Loverboy. It should be noted that Loverboys are very often themselves pushed by a very organized network which is above them.

I invite you to watch this 30-minutes report (in German, please use the subtitle in English) which will allow you to better understand who are Loverboys:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAmAh10byTM

Towards the end of the interview, the therapist is asked if "voluntary prostitution" exists. She is hesitant, stutters and dares not to answer sincerely. Because yes, voluntary prostitution does exist. Not all sex workers are prostitutes and not all prostitutes are victims. Of course, more than 80% are, but not all of them should be put in the same basket, and it is very important to emphasize on this.

Instead of wanting to eradicate the oldest profession in the world, one should legalize it by organizing and supervising it in order to make it hard for human trafficking methods such as Loverboys for instances, to operate.

And you, as a client, what can you do not to encourage coercive prostitution and Loverboys phenomenon? Choose to go to places where you know that ladies are not forced into this industry. Because in the end, without clients, there is no prostitution. Why do clients refuse to ask themselves fundamentals basic questions? Erotic Clubs and many so-called "Flat-Rates" places are full of women who don't want to be there. Why be indirectly complicit in this form of human trafficking when other more ethical and fair alternatives are available to you? Why choose the devil? To save 100 or 150 CHF? But seriously, aren't you ashamed of yourself?

Janet – The Velvet Rooms

Another important website about Loverboys (in German) : http://www.no-loverboys.de

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